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John Duffy, a Board Director
of The American Ireland Fund and Co-Chair of the
2006 New York Dinner, was honored at this year’s
Irish Chamber of Commerce in the US (ICCUSA) dinner
in New York City in October. ICCUSA honored individuals
who have demonstrated a commitment through commerce
and/or the arts to Ireland's success.
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John shared reflections of
his childhood and his Irish roots and The American
Ireland Fund was pleased to be acknowledged in his
speech.
His speech that evening follows:
Many of you are the sons and
daughters of the people who left their homeland because
of lack of opportunity. Thankfully, that is no longer
the case in Ireland and organizations like ICCUSA
have helped fuel the investment in Ireland that has
created today’s Celtic Tiger.
My parents are from Sligo and Leitrim and left Ireland
in 1940 to seek a better life for themselves and
escape the repression and lack of opportunity. My
mother Annie McCaffrey, came to America in 1940.
I marvel today that she, the first to leave Ireland
in her family, had such courage to come to an unknown
land. She came for the opportunity. Although she
had no education past primary school, she is a very
wise woman. Growing up, she always told me to get
an education, “they
can’t take that away from you.” When I brought my family to Ireland
in 1996 we had a wonderful experience. My mother got to show her daughter-in-law,
my wife Kathleen, and her five grandchildren, my five children, Brian, Chris,
Kevin, Kara, and Caitlin, four of them here tonight, where she grew up. One Sunday
we went to Mass at her church and afterwards we visited the cemetery next door
seeking out the tombstones of members of the McCaffrey family. When we came to
the tombstones of her Uncle James, she proudly pointed out that this was her
father’s brother and that he had been a teacher. I was a little puzzled
at reading the tombstone, the letters N.T. appeared after his name. I could not
imagine what they stood for, perhaps, ‘Not There’. She then proudly
pointed out that they stood for National Teacher. Clearly, a teacher was regarded
with great respect and hence her appreciation for an education.
I was fortunate to be schooled by the Sisters of Mercy in the Bronx in my youth.
Then I went to Cardinal Hayes High School where the priests and brothers tried
to knock some sense into me. Thinking about opportunity in the United States,
I would have you know that the cheapest seat in the house tonight is $600.
Well, grammar school at St. Simon’s was free and the priests at Hayes only
charged me for my first two years. $15.00 a month, $150.00 a year, $300.00 for
two years, the cost of my schooling was a total of $300.00. That would get you
half a meal tonight. College at CCNY was free – what a great country – thank
you Mayor Bloomberg. I mention that because I, like my mother, truly believe
in the power of education.
We normally think of education in a traditional sense. Children going off to
school to learn how to read, write, and learn mathematics and other subjects.
Today, as Irish Americans, we must think of education in an expanded sense. We
must not educate just the children of our society, but do whatever we can to
help educate the adults of Northern Ireland so that the progress that has been
made in recent years continues. These Irish people are the unfortunate products
of centuries of hate and distrust. We can help them obtain a better life for
themselves and their children and I urge all of you to do what you can to make
our Ireland a better place to live.
I would like to acknowledge Kieran McLoughlin and all my friends from The American
Ireland Fund that have done so much in Northern Ireland through their sponsorship
of the integrated schools in Northern Ireland.
In closing, I would like to tell you that the Waldorf Astoria is my favorite
hotel. I accepted an award here a few years ago from The American Ireland Fund.
I was honored after the attacks of 9/11, that day I lost 66 co-workers and friends
and I lost my 23 year old son, Chris, who worked for me. I was
fortunate to have missed the attack that morning.
I was honored that night to receive the award as I am tonight. But the significance
of the Waldorf is that my
mother ran the elevators in this hotel in 1942. So some of you may think that
the Duffys or the McCaffreys have only moved 100 yards or so in 63 years, but
in reality we have come a long way because we’re Irish and because this
great country gave us an incredible opportunity.
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